a) Wanting It For Yourself
No one can make you do anything that you don’t want to do. Any method that you use to quit (Patches, Gum, "Cold Turkey" or FreshStart™) will fail if you don’t actually want, on some level, to become a non-smoker.
"But my wife / husband / children / partner / other important person, want me to quit"
Ask yourself this question. "If this person did not want me to quit, would I still want to be a non-smoker for myself?" Be honest. If you decide that there is a large part of you that wants to quit for yourself then FreshStart™ will work for you.